
“I am no longer valuable to God. I have failed. It’s all a mess.
I must hide from my Father.”
Once we embrace that perspective, it begins to permeate every layer of life and inevitably impacts our relationship with God.
Joni Eareckson Tada has this to say: "Conversations at the Well is an extraordinary collection of insightful narratives for a generation desperate to know that grace is greater than shame and that no one is beyond the reach of God’s redeeming love. For anyone who has ever wondered, "Am I enough?" or has felt the urge to retreat from others and hide from God, Susan Habegger offers a powerful message of hope and healing. Readers will discover that the answer to shame is not greater self-esteem or self-effort, but a deeper understanding of the grace, acceptance, and saving love of Christ. Like the woman at the well who encountered Jesus and left transformed, we are invited to bring our own stories, scars, disappointments, and secrets into His presence. Change is possible, Susan assures us. So, I wholeheartedly recommend Conversations at the Well, and my prayer is that every reader who opens its pages will hear the voice of Jesus calling them out of hiding and into the freedom, joy, and purpose that can only be found in Him. In short, I love this book!"
-Joni Eareckson Tada, Joni and Friends International Disability Center
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A man shared: "Today when you were talking about good things in our life during that time of trauma, I was made aware of the feelings that I hold for a brother. He offended me years ago, and I have been carrying that trauma and pain. And then you reminded us to remember good things that were happening during that time--to be aware that trauma's intent is to wipe out all good. As I sat there, I was able to remember good things that the friend had done and ways that we were brothers. I was able to release that trauma at the table today. I spoke with him at break and we renewed our friendship."
A soldier returned from the front: I have come back from the war and I feel a newness of life and appreciation for life. But I found out that my children were looking for money from me during the war and that they were sad that I had come home. In truth, I felt that I would be better off dead in their eyes. You have emphasized multiple times that we are valuable--not by the standards of others but in God's eyes. I now have words to say to that threat of taking my life: I am valuable to God.
An 80-yr-old woman saw and experienced things she never dreamed could happen. She lived in the east during thetakeover. She has vivid memories: shootings, bombs, running, family members killed. The chaos is embedded inher mind. Her son was killed in battle. It is so hard for the older ones having lost what they had and in particular the safety of their home. Nothing is as it should be. It takes great strength to press on. In her sweet voice, she sharedher heart with tears streaming. “I can’t sleep - not for four years. When I sleep I have nightmares.”
One day Jeff (fellow teacher for the conference) and I both gave tools to help relax through breathing techniques.That day, she lost her car keys and had to sit and wait for her husband. While she waited, she used those tools. For the first time, I fell peacefully asleep. She was so happy. It was a pivotal moment in her healing.
Olexander, the pastor of the church, thanked us with tears for coming“just to spend time with us.” The participants' gratitude was felt in thehugs and kisses and simple gifts: cucumbers, currants, crochetedhearts, angels, and socks, military badges, military compass, survivalbracelet, honey, beaded flowers, fresh flowers, flags . . . and more. This outpouring is when you know the heart has connected and there is adesire to give back.
A young woman asked: What do you do when you want to share your story but no one wants to listen?
No one wants to hear because they have their own suffering.
That question is a foundation of inspiration for the outreach of Thrive Life Skills.
We want to hear. We want to comfort with the same comfort that God has shown to us in our suffering.
We cannot erase suffering—nor can we “fix” it. However, we can walk with people as they face the lingering pain. Most nationals, women in particular, are unsure of how to speak about pain openly and without fear. There is loss of value and emptiness of purpose. This conference opens the conversation in a setting of compassion and safety. TLS will provide Biblically-based relevant teaching, group discussion, and handouts for the participants of the conference. We look forward to our time with these women.
Women and young girls live with many disadvantages in most African villages. The very natural onset of menstruation presents a distinct challenge. Without proper sanitary provisions, the young girls are forced to stay home from school or work. Reusable provisions are becoming available but the cost is prohibitive and the desirable supplies are being used as “bait” for sexual favors.
Entrepreneurship has always been a part of TLS's vision. By providing the training and start up provisions to sew good quality reusable provisions, TLS is able to empower the women to provide for themselves and each other – and create relevant sustainable businesses in the community. Through generous donations, we are able to provide sewing machines and construct a simple building to house the machines and provide a place for the women to begin their enterprise. Twenty women are ready to learn and lead! It seems that God is in this endeavor.

KENYA
There is a feeling that often lies deep within, waiting for the opportune moment to accuse and unsettle us. Of all the emotions that we might identify at this moment, the true culprit would likely not be named. In fact, we might strongly deny that we would harbor such an affliction. And that simply adds to its intrigue— and to its strength.
Yet, when we are honest, we recognize some of its symptoms. We know the feeling of intimidation that initiates self-protection, the fear that compels us to withdraw and hide, the accusations that plague our thoughts, the regrets that accumulate and multiply into a crushing burden.
These struggles that plague our sense of well-being and fullness of life can often be traced to a feeling of shame and fear. We have much to learn as we listen in on the impromptu conversation between Jesus and the Samaritan woman.

When God asked me to write Moving Forward From Trauma (now Come Alongside), the first location He sent me to teach it was THAILAND in 2015, and again in 2018. I am so happy to say that it is time to return! Tera Kouba will lead a group from First Baptist Church San Antonio and has asked TLS to go as a teaching partner. We will have three focuses:
The people (many are refugees) have deep scars and ongoing challenges due to the conflicts in Myanmar. They have experienced the warfare firsthand and ask for help with the trauma that now threatens to consume them. TLS will come alongside to share the hope of a peaceful way forward -- even in such times.


“I’m leaving satisfied, with some big questions in my life answered.”
“I feel like I have rested—both body and soul—and gained so much useful knowledge. I am so happy I came.”
“Thank you for the useful materials and deep learning. It was powerful.”
“Thank you for the love and care you have shown us. We applaud from the bottom of our hearts.”
"I AM SEEN. I AM KNOWN. I AM LOVED. These are words I needed to hear at this time in my life."
"Thank you for helping me to express my memories and my hopes for the future."
"I will create my story and save it for my son in a book."
“Everything was the highest level. Personally, I needed it - the information gave me more encouragement and inspiration. I felt fulfilled by what Susan shared. Your presence in our country, your support, your contribution are very important at this time. Very valuable. Thank you so much!”
"You are so on-time — for me personally and for our country. We are tired and losing our focus. You have come like a gentle wind blowing into the dying sparks to bring renewed life. You are inspiring us. Thank you."
We are really happy to be part of this great God’s project and accept you here in Ukraine. “God is good”—we repeated all the time during the trips to Krakow and back, during the seminars, and during some rest time. These days were a real blessing with lots of useful information, communication and sharing from heart to heart. The material everyone got is really helpful for everyone personally and for serving people in home groups and different ministries in the local churches. In their feedback papers all the participants thank the organizers for the seminar— true and actual information. In the afternoon women had their private time with sewing and telling their stories. It was a very inspiring time and two communities have already had the idea to organize sisters’ ministries in such a way with different handicrafts and sharing their stories. It’s so powerful! God blessed us so much. We look forward to our future common missions and projects! Clear Vision Charity Foundation, Ukraine
“The people of Northern Uganda have suffered much and carry the memory burden of great atrocities and pain. Thrive Life Skills’ course about moving forward from trauma helped my people feel a difference in their lives. The people of Northern Uganda heard truth that gave us a way forward.
One man told me, “Neither is there enough alcohol in the world to make pain disappear . . . I only realized this after the teaching. I found a new way to heal.”
Because the teaching is relevant and bears fruit in our lives, we look forward to each return visit from Susan and Thrive Life Skills. (Fr. Simon Menya, Spiritual Leader and
Director of Northern Uganda Self-Sufficiency Project, Gulu, Uganda)
When Holding Ukraine was faced with the overwhelming requests for trauma and PTSD training, we turned to a trusted source, Susan Habegger from Thrive Life Skills, for her extraordinary dedication and compassionate service. The training from Thrive Life Skills has been a beacon of hope for countless Ukrainian women and men, guiding them through the harrowing aftermath of war. The unwavering commitment to help those who suffer overcome trauma and find solace in their faith is truly inspiring.
Thrive Life Skills not only provides essential life skills but also fosters a deep sense of community and spiritual healing. Susan's ability to connect with individuals on a personal level and support them in their journey toward recovery and faith is unparalleled and has a profound impact on the lives she touches. The efforts of Thrive Life Skills are a testament to the power of empathy, resilience, and faith.
We wholeheartedly recommend Susan and Thrive Life Skills for their invaluable contribution to the well-being and spiritual growth of those affected by the conflict in Ukraine.
Dave and Kathy Rohmfeld, Founder/Director of Holding Ukraine
I have been serving for 20+ years in Northern Uganda where civil war, poverty, and disease have ravaged the land and the people. My primary focus has been medical—however, I was very much aware of the great need for help with trauma and healing from the psychological suffering that everyone carries. I met Susan, the director of Thrive Life Skills, and the connection was immediate. Our hearts were on the same path to come alongside those who struggle to find some way forward. Now Thrive Life Skills enables Lift Up Uganda to fulfill its vision more completely. Susan has traveled with me to Uganda multiple times to hold workshops and seminars, including Moving Forward From Trauma, Discovering Our Identity, Entrepreneurship, Small Business Training, and Women’s Retreats. As leaders of nonprofits, we long to provide for the needs we see—needs that often go beyond our focus or expertise. Thrive Life Skills comes alongside to assist and provides experienced training for the nationals so they can minister to their own people. Thrive Life Skills and Lift Up Uganda will continue to work together for years to come—together we can follow God’s call to bring hope to the hopeless.
Sue Nelson, FNP-C, President and Founder of Lift Up Uganda, Inc.
Reclaimed Story and Thrive Life Skills join together for Life Groups.
Women from around the world gather weekly to consider truths that help them move forward from pain and suffering. Susan's Book, A New Song, is the foundation for the discussion.
Susan has also spoken at Reclaimed Story's women's conference in AZ and share time with Denisha Workizer, Executive Director, on her podcast.

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